Some people consider oral sex the most intimate of all sex acts. Cunnilingus, the technical term for performing oral sex on a woman, can be incredibly intimate. To be good at it, you have to be an excellent reader of her body, her breathing, her movements, and what she might be telling you with words. Everything you do is for your partner at that moment and shouldn't be based on performance expectations, lessons from porn, or previous oral sex experiences. Make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed as you'll want to use your hands as well as your mouth on her. If you have facial hair and shave regularly, be sure to do it beforehand; nothing kills the mood quite like sandpaper on her sensitive parts. If you're anxious about this, suggest a romantic bath or shower together and then go down on her. Getting naked and wet with each other is never a bad idea, and as you get more comfortable, you will probably find that your partner's taste and smell trigger more arousal than anything else. Some people use flavored lubricants, and many dental dams great for safer sex are flavored also. Take your time and ease into it.
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If anyone could probably give you some great cunnilingus tips, it's lesbians on spring break. Let's do this:. This first one is great because it gets very specific note the "mix" and also advises you to not finger her butthole the first time you have sex with her. Wise words. This one takes a slightly different approach with "yes, def touch her clit" and "no, do not touch her butthole at all. I'm serious. Emily, who wanted us to know she recently had a birthday, got so specific that it was hilarious watching how much time she spent on this. Also, not going to lie, this is really good advice. That's all I'll say. This one is great because it looks like a fishhook that gives you an orgasm.
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Keep in mind that technique alone is never enough. All the right moves without heat or heart can still come off feeling cold. It may sound silly but this is one of the best ways to discover new tongue movements and pacing that work for your partner. Use your tongue to "spell" out the alphabet, starting with A and ending with Z, on your partner's vulva and clitoris. Avoid focussing so much on keeping track of what letter you're on that you stop enjoying yourself or paying attention.
Sex columnist Anka Radakovich explains how to give your partner great oral sex and have her coming back for more. What do women really want? As a single, hetero woman, I have been with men who ranged from the one who had no idea what he doing downtown to another who was so skilled that I put a framed photo of his tongue on my desk. With just a few simple techniques, you can easily become a cunning linguist. Before you even start, giving a woman an orgasm comes down to one thing; the clitoris. It just wants to be rubbed. Orgasms are not going to magically happen through thrusting penetration alone. Women just need a longer warm-up.
